Love Swing

Tactile contact is always a two way sensation. You cannot touch the body of your lover without it touching you in return. Skin contact is where you both meet your lover and define yourself at the same time. As your hands caress her body, you feel its warmth and sensual softness. In the quality and care of your touch, she in turn, experiences what you are feeling about her. As you stroke him, you express your attraction and love, and at the same time, you can sense whether he is responding and opening up to you. In fact, the moment you touch each other, two realities are meeting and merging.

Touch between lovers, whether it is in the context of massage or is part of their lovemaking, is a silent language through which you exchange deep communication. Verbally, you can say things without revealing your true emotions, but in the way you touch each other you can never lie. Your touch on your lover’s skin will speak directly to her heart, just as her skin responses will communicate her innermost feelings.

A loving touch during the time of foreplay and while making love should always honour the body of your partner. While stroking and caressing each other, try to remain in the present experience of sensation, rather than anticipating what will come next. Let every tender, erotic touch exist for its own sake and for the pleasure it brings rather than being a technique aimed at a pre-conceived goal. Let go of distracting thoughts and expectations, and pour yourself totally into your hands to stroke over the whole of your lover’s body, enjoying the feel of the skin and its underlying structure. The human body is wonderfully sensual with its rounded shapes and curves. Do not rush, but let your hands linger lovingly to fully appreciate each part of it. Bring the whole of your consciousness into your touch and begin to imagine what it feels like to your partner’s skin. Transport yourself into its very sensation, and as you do this, you will begin to feel as if the boundaries between your bodies are melting. Your touch and your lover’s sensation begin to merge into one phenomenon, and even as you caress it will seem as if your partner is stroking you.

Erotic touching can be as nurturing as any other loving touch. However well you know each other, touch each other as if you were exploring the body for the first time. Let your touch convey wonder and respect. To make your erotic touching even more exotic, blend some essential oils into a mix of richly-nutrient base oils such as jojoba and sweet almond, and apply to the skin. The woman can apply jasmine and bergamot to the man (Recipe 1), while neroli and geranium (Recipe 2) are the perfect blend for a woman’s skin.

RECIPE 1

For the Man

Jasmine, Bergamot
To 25m1 (5tsp) base oil mix
of jojoba and sweet almond
add the following:
7 drops jasmine
6 drops Bergamot

RECIPE 2

For the Woman

Neroli, Geranium
To 20m1 (4tsp) base oil mix
of jojoba and sweet almond
add the following:
7 drops Neroli
3 drops Geranium

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