Love Swing

All things considered, then, men and women should embrace their 40th birthdays in, stead of fearing them. It’s in your forties that you both become better, and more compatible, lovers. “Finally, biology isn’t driving you apart”. “In fact, you’re becoming more and more alike.” Read the rest of this entry »

Her body—yours, too, for that matter—is mined with explosive pleasure points. Erogenous zones (body areas conducive to sexual arousal) aren’t limited to the obvious. Why do you think Chinese women wore those high-necked dresses? Because the back of the neck is an important erogenous zone. So are ears, throats, hands, toes, inner thighs, feet, the backs of knees, lower backs…the list goes on. Read the rest of this entry »

Instead of waiting for the perfect partner—someone who most likely will never materialize—we’d do better spending time early in the relationship examining our expectations more closely, tossing aside our unrealistic, unimportant needs and instead focusing our efforts on what we must and can have. Read the rest of this entry »

Some expectations are simply unreasonable. Here are some of the most common ones. Read the rest of this entry »

Marital seduction…that’s a contradiction in terms, right? Shouldn’t you expect sex in a committed relationship? Isn’t convenient, available sex one of the perks of tying the knot? Don’t most societies consider it a wife’s duty to deliver sex? Read the rest of this entry »

Columbus in Bed

If you haven’t been pushing a lot of envelopes in the bedroom lately, don’t feel like you’re pulling down the average. Good old- fashioned, no-frills loving is still the best loving.

“You ought to be a good sex partner first”. “Then sex doesn’t need a hell of a lot of other stuff. There’s something about lust and enthusiasm that does more than any ‘extras. Read the rest of this entry »

Communication researchers call it the “beam-me-up-Scotty response.” It’s that moment when a man feels so overwhelmed by his partner’s endless tirade about whatever that he looks up to the heavens, hoping an intergalactic rescue squad will transport him to someplace more pleasant. Say, perhaps, a planet of Amazon-like women in formfitting uniforms.

But odds are that those Amazon babes would speak a different language, and the poor guy is already having enough trouble communicating with this woman he happens to love right here on Planet Earth.

Communication. All the love, compatibility, and good intentions in the world can’t make up for two people who can’t get through to each other. Read the rest of this entry »

It’s a whole lot more embarrassing than the pig Latin you and Stinky Peterman muttered back in fifth grade, but it meets the same objective: When you and your partner speak a secret language, it cements the bond between you. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the quickest ways to broaden your sexual horizons is simply by varying an old theme. Kissing, for instance. To help you get started, here are some offbeat kisses that have already been created for you. Read the rest of this entry »

Once you’ve explored some basic erotic scenarios or toyed with the toys, your mind may start to turn toward other forms of sex play. We’re talking about what you thought we were talking about: bondage, dominance/submission, spanking. In short, the supercharged erotic stuff you always thought of as being at the edge of your sexual horizon. Read the rest of this entry »

Anne Semans a sex accessory store in San Francisco, took the phone call: It was from a man in his seventies, wondering if Semans could help. “My Mrs. and I are looking for something it rubber and leather,” he explained. Read the rest of this entry »

Sexual fantasies are great, aren’t they? How else could you break the record for consecutive simultaneous orgasms with all the Spice Girls and their older sisters? Is there any other way to turn that overbearing but well- built receptionist into a piece of warm putty who calls you King? Read the rest of this entry »

Of course, we’re not talking cheek-pecks at family gatherings. It’s the deep, sexual kissing that’s the instant turn-on for many women. But there is something in between, something perhaps lighter than your highest-intensity tongue warfare, but it still qualifies as heavy artillery in your sexual armory. That’s the kind of kissing you do with her that’s warm, intimate, loving, and yes, sexual— but you’re not fumbling at your buckle and her buttons to move the action along. Read the rest of this entry »

Our bodies can be a source of a great joy but sometimes we carry fears and inhibitions which prohibit us from fully letting go into our potential of ecstasy. Those tensions may lock themselves in the body’s muscles as well as burying themselves deep into the mind. Moving the body and letting it have free expression can dissolve the tensions that inhibits our more playful, and spontaneous spirit. Read the rest of this entry »

Sexuality is a doorway to life’s beautiful mysteries. It can answer our human needs and take us beyond them. The fusion of male and female energies in the context of love and awareness can become a transcendental experience. In this blissful experience lies sexuality’s spiritual potential. Read the rest of this entry »

Tactile contact is always a two way sensation. You cannot touch the body of your lover without it touching you in return. Skin contact is where you both meet your lover and define yourself at the same time. As your hands caress her body, you feel its warmth and sensual softness. Read the rest of this entry »

Surround yourself with fragrance as you make love and let the character of the oils transport you and your partner into the realm of bliss. Now is the time for you to choose your own special blend, selecting those oils which have become significant to you and your partner, and with which you have developed a deep connection. Nobody else can really tell you what aroma will best suit your sexual encounters for these moments are intensely personal to you both. Read the rest of this entry »

Essential oils can be very beneficial in easing sexual anxiety, soothing fears that may stand in the way of the full enjoyment of an intimate relationship. Certain aromas exact their influence on the olfactory senses, stimulating the body, relaxing the mind, opening the heart, and warming the emotions. They can help draw you away from far distant thoughts and distractions into the sensual experience of the present moment. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the most important aspects of touch is that it brings the senses in our skin alive. It is through our outer layer that we are able to experience and feel all sensation. Skin envelops us and protects us and it is the meeting point of our external and internal realities. What happens on the outside of the body, is transmitted by our feeling senses in the skin to the brain through the central nervous system. Read the rest of this entry »

We recognize that many of the available “adult” movies and videos are little more than trash. But in the last five years or so there has been a greater shift on the part of some Adult Movie producers toward romantic love stories that are also sexually explicit. These high-quality, well-written and -acted films might only have one or two of these sexually explicit scenes. Read the rest of this entry »