Love Swing

Some expectations are simply unreasonable. Here are some of the most common ones. Read the rest of this entry »

Marital seduction…that’s a contradiction in terms, right? Shouldn’t you expect sex in a committed relationship? Isn’t convenient, available sex one of the perks of tying the knot? Don’t most societies consider it a wife’s duty to deliver sex? Read the rest of this entry »

Columbus in Bed

If you haven’t been pushing a lot of envelopes in the bedroom lately, don’t feel like you’re pulling down the average. Good old- fashioned, no-frills loving is still the best loving.

“You ought to be a good sex partner first”. “Then sex doesn’t need a hell of a lot of other stuff. There’s something about lust and enthusiasm that does more than any ‘extras. Read the rest of this entry »

Communication researchers call it the “beam-me-up-Scotty response.” It’s that moment when a man feels so overwhelmed by his partner’s endless tirade about whatever that he looks up to the heavens, hoping an intergalactic rescue squad will transport him to someplace more pleasant. Say, perhaps, a planet of Amazon-like women in formfitting uniforms.

But odds are that those Amazon babes would speak a different language, and the poor guy is already having enough trouble communicating with this woman he happens to love right here on Planet Earth.

Communication. All the love, compatibility, and good intentions in the world can’t make up for two people who can’t get through to each other. Read the rest of this entry »

It’s a whole lot more embarrassing than the pig Latin you and Stinky Peterman muttered back in fifth grade, but it meets the same objective: When you and your partner speak a secret language, it cements the bond between you. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the quickest ways to broaden your sexual horizons is simply by varying an old theme. Kissing, for instance. To help you get started, here are some offbeat kisses that have already been created for you. Read the rest of this entry »

Once you’ve explored some basic erotic scenarios or toyed with the toys, your mind may start to turn toward other forms of sex play. We’re talking about what you thought we were talking about: bondage, dominance/submission, spanking. In short, the supercharged erotic stuff you always thought of as being at the edge of your sexual horizon. Read the rest of this entry »

Anne Semans a sex accessory store in San Francisco, took the phone call: It was from a man in his seventies, wondering if Semans could help. “My Mrs. and I are looking for something it rubber and leather,” he explained. Read the rest of this entry »

Sexual fantasies are great, aren’t they? How else could you break the record for consecutive simultaneous orgasms with all the Spice Girls and their older sisters? Is there any other way to turn that overbearing but well- built receptionist into a piece of warm putty who calls you King? Read the rest of this entry »

Of course, we’re not talking cheek-pecks at family gatherings. It’s the deep, sexual kissing that’s the instant turn-on for many women. But there is something in between, something perhaps lighter than your highest-intensity tongue warfare, but it still qualifies as heavy artillery in your sexual armory. That’s the kind of kissing you do with her that’s warm, intimate, loving, and yes, sexual— but you’re not fumbling at your buckle and her buttons to move the action along. Read the rest of this entry »